Monday 23 December 2013

Nigella Lawson, the fallen woman and the 10 swords....a Scapegoat for a lost empire.

The Pre-Raphaelite society would have loved the recent coverage of the vilification of Nigella Lawson. In fact everything about about the case smacked of retributive Victoriana. Every day we were blasted with Nigella's sad face emblazoned across the usual witch burning tabloids, my head became a tumble of the symbolism of the Pre Raphs, William Holman Hunt's Scapegoat leaped into view, adding clout to my tut-tutting as I passed the newsagents. It crossed my mind that there was something subliminal going on, we women were meant to glimpse (often) that angst ridden face, a stark reminder that we might be a Goddess in the kitchen, but err and the powers that be ( in Nigella's case a husband so rich that it is almost perverted AND who appears to be a Roman Emperor in disguise) and you can forget any success or good that you might have done in the world or for yourself. I feel for her, I really do, she has been made an example of.
The Scape Goat. William Holman Hunt.

This country has a history of patriarchy conditioning its women, scary stuff, especially when you consider that Ghandi said 'You can tell a nation by how it treats its Women and Animals'. It appears that even in the UK, buried deep in the psyche, there is no real difference between the two. Both live out a life of servitude to men. It is not all that long ago that there really was a law that a man could beat his wife with a stick as long as it was no bigger than his thumb.
In Victoria's rule, when the Empire was the jewel in the crown of great Britain, when the Industrial revolution was priming us up for what was to become a globalisation of our skills and assets, women represented the strength and beauty of this fair isle. John Ruskin in his lecture, 'Sesame and Lillies' opined romantically that woman full of grace, even the flowers nod as she walks by. Particularly if you come from the right side of town.
Naughty Nigella, she strayed from the path. She became the fallen woman. In Rosetti's painting of the same name we can see the miserable wretch clinging to the wall, forlorn and wasted. ( In Nigella's case, literally!!)
She is being saved from herself by whom, Saatchi? Victim support? A society that cherishes survivors? In the background we see the Lamb, albeit sacrificial but it strayed from the flock and is now saved never to stray again as it is now netted and suitably restrained.
What Saatchi and the tabloids didn't bank on is actually people are sometimes more lovable when they are at their more wretched and vulnerable. Ok, so everyone's moral compass may not agree with her hijinx(!?) but in this day and age it is rare to find someone who has not flirted with a stimulant of some kind, frankly,the whole world gets off on something!
Let's not forget that Nigella made exceedingly good cakes and put sex appeal back into the kitchen, there is a strange irony that she is iconic of what is historically a woman's domain and one wonders if she is paying for not being ugly and troutish nor barefoot and pregnant and tied to the kitchen sink, Saatchi made sure of that.....it doesn't escape me that he has a foothold in the world of advertising and here we are playing out an archetypal cultural drama where gender specifics are  the cheer leaders. Venus and Mars.
I feel this supposed evil matriarch will come good....in time. One truly hopes that she will bounce back and trounce her oppressors; not to eat cake but their words. She is not a self destructive narcissist but a winner. What we have learnt since the days of Victoria that we can overcome.
Saatchi, it seems wanted some kind of revenge.I have to confess that I have forgotten the whole point of why he took her to court in the first place but he was out to get her with as many swords as possible. For the rest of us it might be worth bearing in mind that there is some fictitious empire, perhaps it is like the spiritual Jerusalem and resides in another realm but what ever it is beware you don't bring shame on the good name of it's patriarchal representatives.
Nigella Lawson would do well to take the lesson form the influence of the 10 Swords. Everything passes, very soon she will be a different person and this whole sorry incident will no longer be of relevance. Yes, she has had sorrow and loss, yes this can shape our thinking. She may have chosen a difficult path for herself but she is promised a new dawn, an awakening of conscience to oneself and the realisation that she has a lot to offer the world and the world has a lot to offer her.

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  1. Crowley sees this card as the Sun sign of Gemini. I recognize it because it is my birth sign. The challenge I believe of this card, as seen by him, is completion. It is called Ruin. Having seen this card appear in a reading done for me recently I paid attention to how best one can move forwards, it is the challenge I believe in rising above. Seeing an overview and keeping one's eyes on the prize ahead, the vision of the future that only we can create and rebirth for ourselves. For Gemini people this can mean only answering and completing tasks that one feels truly called to answer, and letting go of experiences when they are complete. Life moves forwards, it is its way and it is cyclical. Whatever the mythos Nigella is involved in, she can re-mythologize or re-story her life, and represent its patterns with the authentic pattern which underpins us all. Love.

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    1. Thanks Cath for your comments. much appreciated. The 10 swords is indeed a powerful card. Crowley said that this card ''is the ruin of the intellect & even of all mental & moral qualities.'' I think he infers here that instead of our thoughts being connected to the higher mind we are filling our head with destructive thoughts, through either destructive behaviour or a response to lower energies at work in our life.
      I remember a reading when this card came up for me in relation to my journey here in the physical world. At face value it would be that I have chosen a difficult path & will have to process much of life's detritus in order to attain a real sense of the transpersonal, this why I feel blessed that I do the work I do, as a result of processing I have a general awareness of the power of the carnal & primal & how it can overshadow the journey of the the transcendental spirit.
      Sun in Gemini....there is a vulnerability here which is played out by restlessness & indecision, never being certain about identity & purpose. This is the contract of the physical...to feel at ease with one's lot, this is hard for the Geminian whose natural curiosity is to look for the great things at large in the world but at the same time be disappointed by the every day stuff. The choice is to what do I pledge my allegiance?
      As a neophyte, my early learning was understanding the energy of this card. Spirit would regularly send me the skeptic & the abused. This 10 showed me the relevance of growth from suffering. Loss & suffering can create the soul to split in order to deal with guilt & fear, part of my work then was soul retrieval;(Sandra Ingerman wrote a very good book on the subject). I associate this card with that dynamic. How we survive even the most abhorrent of situations rests on our ability to process loss & struggle. Our thoughts can be harmful. I think of Viktor Frankel with this card & his treatise on surviving the holocaust in the camps, the rising above of the situation & creating a new world, albeit an internal one, was paramount to survival on all levels.
      Indeed, life moves forward & it is the experience of life & how we perceive it which will ultimately designate our path into destiny.

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